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A reader passed along the following Pittsburgh obituary with a note: "Sounds like you would have loved Alice."
It's quite shocking how well our readers already know us! Nonetheless, it is so true. We would have adored Alice and forced her to go on long shopping trips and use her noisy laugh in mom and pop diners... during lunchtime rush.
While we'd like to send our best wishes to Alice's family, we're fairly sure they don't need them. After all, they had a lifetime with Alice and we know they come from good stock.
Rest in peace, Alice. Next time we go out, we're buying a round of whiskey sours in your honor.
Alice M. Jessell
Alice Jessell, 88, of Swissvale, died peacefully on April 23, 2007, at West Penn Hospital surrounded by her children.
Friends and family are invited to celebrate her long and happy life this Saturday (April 29) at 2 p.m. at St. James Roman Catholic Church in Wilkinsburg and at a reception to follow at her home. In lieu of flowers, please overtip a waitress. Or donations may be made to Hosanna House in Wilkinsburg www.hosannahouse.org or mailed directly to Hosanna House, 807 Wallace Avenue, Pittsburgh, PA 15221.
Alice was raised in Wilkinsburg, the fifth of seven children of James R. and Mary Snyder. She attended elementary school at St. James Catholic School and graduated from Wilkinsburg High School in 1936, despite a legendary contentious relationship with Sister Mary Koska.
She may have been the most competitive and outgoing of the Snyder seven. She usually won the games of hopscotch on the sidewalk or jacks at the top of the porch steps. She lined up the Snyders before the radio so Arthur Murray could teach then to dance, and was invariably the first to master the steps. She introduced Eugene, a cocker spaniel, into the household.
In the 1940s, when the men were off to war, she and her sister, Harriet, ran Snyder's Beauty Shop at the corner of Franklin and Ardmore in Wilkinsburg. Harriet or Hat, at 90, is still going strong, living in Edgewood and looking forward to the next sale at Macy's and lunch at the Tick Tock Room.
Alice owned a convertible and a two-piece bathing suit--Wilkinsburg's first, she claimed. They accompanied her on a road trip to Florida in 1942. Alice took details of that adventure with her to the grave.
In 1948, she settled down, marrying Harry A. Jessell of Swissvale, whom she admired for his dancing and his determination to use the GI Bill to get a college education. They built a home on Cascade Road in Forest Hills and raised a family of six. In 1962, for the sake of Harry's career, they moved to Silver Spring, Md., but, upon Harry's retirement in 1980, they returned to Pittsburgh, to Regent Square, to be near family and old friends. Harry died in 1986 at 66.
Alice's great avocation was bridge. She organized bridge clubs wherever she lived and was able to play well up until her final days. Her children remember that things were always quieter around the house when Harry and Alice had not been bridge partners the night before.
She also loved dogs, whiskey sours, chocolate, Nelson Eddy, and cigarettes. She often said she was "cursed to be a life-long liberal", by which she meant she would tolerate no prejudice or discrimination. Many felt her sting after using a racial or religious epithet in her presence. She wrote passionate letters to the editors of several newspapers, which she later collected and published as "The Magic of the Pen".
For a self-described liberal, she was not much of a feminist, however. She felt women should stay at home to raise their children as she had done. In her mind, "having it all" wasn't possible.
Alice had ready advice for what life brings, including boredom ("Pull down your pants and slide on the ice"), happiness ("You only have problems when you stop to think about them"), compassion ("Always root for the underdog"), and her own impending death ("Sing no sad songs for me").
Alice is survived by all six children: Jane Jessell, of Swissvale; Mark Jessell (Shari) of Charlotte, NC; Harry Jessell (Rosemary) of Chatham, NJ; Hugh Jessell (Margie) of Columbia, MD; Susan Jessell of Edgewood and Tim Jessell (Leslie) of Bethesda, MD. And 17 grandchildren: Zachary, Matthew, Anne, Douglas, Robert, Daniel, Lauren, Mary, Harry, Thomas, Bridget, Sarah, Katherine, Timothy, Eric, Pamela and Adam.
We adore you.
And now, so do we.
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