A small article appeared Monday that many likely only skimmed or completely ignored. Two women, according to writers at The Gazette, were arrested as part of a Cedar Rapids police prostitution sting. I'm always curious as to what pushes a woman to sell her own body, which is a topic rarely included in news articles, but I'm always loathe to check. After noting that such information was not included, I kept going back to the story, which was originally posted without photographs of the women, to read the comments.
In America, and maybe in other places as well, women are too often judged on outer appearances instead of their spirit -- and profession isn't a limiting force. Don't believe me? Check out the video that Minnesota Senate Republicans felt was appropriate for their website. Women, regardless of merit or economic station, are continually judged by their appearance.
As evidence, the first comment on The Gazette's online site is by username icgma, requesting "Mugshots, please!" The comment received a push rating of two, and is followed by several similarly degrading comments that left me with visions of pigs in Chinos, salivating over a trough of rotten produce.
According to Hollywood and front-page political sex scandals, prostitution is glamorous, right? Only for a select few.
Most of the prostitutes that I've had the honor of speaking with (and it is *always* an honor when people provide you access to their lives and their thoughts) are a lot like I imagine these two women to be. That is, many of the women I've spoken with don't feel they have the skills or talents to move into a more traditional industry -- and, even if they wanted to, they believe traditional earnings would be much less than what can be garnered by turning tricks. Some have children at home to support, others have drug habits or alcohol addictions that need constant nurturing. They were not saints, nor were they demons.
But none of those commenting at The Gazette seem interested in learning more about what makes people tick, or what that says about or how it impacts larger society. They are content, as most are, to simply judge a book by its cover.


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